Root causes

GRATITUDE- it’s the little things that count

I'm Anindita!

I am a Functional Medicine certified Health Coach and AFMC Practitioner. I help women with autoimmune conditions I help women with autoimmune conditions reverse their symptoms with their body as their guide

hey there

Get the free
shopping guide for groceries and snacks

I want it

TOp categories

Reading Time: 3 minutes

If the only prayer you said was thank you, that would be enough. 

Meister Eckhart

When things are tough, many of us focus only on the  “glass half empty” and complain about all the things that are not the way we want it to be. Unfortunately for us, we end up feeling helpless and disempowered when we do this.

Would this not help you change the way you think no matter what your circumstances are?

Research shows that when we look at life this way, the effects are quantifiable and sustainable. This is in terms of the quality of our life, our relationships, inner peace, happiness and health. We are never too old, young, rich, poor to live gratefully.

According to Robert Emmons, psychology professor and gratitude researcher at UC, Davis there are two main components of gratitude, affirmation and recognition. One, we affirm the good things that we have received as a gift from sources outside of us and two, we also acknowledge the role that others play in bringing it about for us. 

There are many health benefits which have been shown to be linked with gratitude such as

  • Increased happiness and positive mood
  • More satisfaction in life
  • Less likely to experience burnout
  • Better sleep
  • Less fatigue
  • Greater resiliency

Count your blessings

Each day you have many opportunities to develop a grateful heart by learning to pay attention to all the blessings in your life- big and small. But if you do not learn to clear your mind of negativity on a regular basis, you leave no room in your heart for gratitude to enter. However, when you do so, even in the midst of your pain and suffering you will find that you cannot be lost in worry about the future.

What gets in the way of gratitude?

For most people, it is the frenetic pace of modern life. It leaves little room to pause, reflect and ponder upon all the gifts that we receive every single day. It robs us of the little moments that can open our eyes to all that we have already- right here, right now. If we get into the habit of using our senses and pay attention and look for all the gifts that we are given every day, we can find valuable gifts even in the most challenging times.

However, the key here is this (including in my own experience) – that we remain open to whatever is we are experiencing and not fight it tooth and nail. This allows us to (sometimes in retrospect) to see all that we can be grateful for even in the midst of our pain and suffering. 

Gratitude is the gateway to “JOY”

In an earlier post, “INTENTION- a pathway for inviting happiness into your life”,  I shared with you how deciding to be happy and then becoming intentional about it could help you to train your mind to see more joy in your life. Gratitude is yet another way of training your mind by awakening all your of sense and rewiring your brain to see more of joy in your life. 

Gratitude for small wonders

The Zen teacher Jon Kabat Zinn had once said..

I want to leave you with one of the most effective ways to train your gratitude muscles to start noticing and appreciating all the good in your life. Keeping a GRATITUDE JOURNAL is one amazing way of magnifying the good in your life and expanding your experience of gratitude.

Here are some key things to keep in mind as you get started

  • Take 15 minutes before you go to bedtime to write down 3 things that you are grateful for (you can also use the journal prompts listed below to help you)
  • Let your writing flow without trying to change it or force and don’t worry about the grammar.
  • Make sure that you are writing down specific things that you are grateful for rather than very general ones so as to avoid gratitude fatigue- using different journal prompts every day can help as well
  • Know and accept that it will take time for you to notice any difference in your life and that you will need to keep practicing to become better at this

Journal prompts to get you started

  • What I appreciate most in my life right now
  • 5 things that I am grateful for right now (or as many as you can think of)
  • I am grateful for my family because…”
  • “Something good happened this week…”
  • “I am grateful for my friendship with… because…”
  • “I am grateful for who I am because…”
  • “Something silly that I am grateful for…”
  • “Something else I am grateful for…”
  • The best part about my day today
  • What I am learning from my challenges

In this week’s podcast episode, I have shared with you three ways (including journaling) that you can change the way you look at life by training your mind to look for the good.


+ show Comments

- Hide Comments

add a comment

Notify of

Inline Feedbacks
View all comments

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Health Coach, author, blogger, podcaster, mom of two and avid reader

Before you get any further....
Hi, I'm Anindita!

I am a Functional Medicine certified Health Coach and AFMC practitioner. I help women with autoimmune conditions reverse their symptoms with their body as their guide

I work with women who want to go beyond symptom management, reconnect with their bodies and learn how to get well and stay well by tuning into their body's wisdom 

Learn more


“Autoimmune healing toolkit for women”

This toolkit will be focusing on the different kinds of tools you can use to create a healing environment like mindfulness, self compassion, journaling, stress management by reconnecting to your body's wisdom.
Sign up for the WAITLIST to receive the ebook when it is published!

Click HERE to sign up!


© Paper Plane 2020. All rights reserved. | Legal | Design by TONIC

Would love your thoughts, please comment.x